Someone told me something important today.
He said ” When people do wrong things, sometimes we can ignore it and let it be and that is ok ; then there are some other times we have to let them face the consequences of the choices they make, because when they do, they are corrected and when they are corrected, they become better people”
I guess he is right.
But sometimes it’s not easy to deal with people who do wrong things against you.
It’s not always of case of black and white, there are shades of grey that cannot be explained. You are angry that they would take advantage of you, and then you are hurt that they didn’t consider to think of how it could affect everything, and when you hold on to that, you have a sense of bitterness that takes a hold of you.
I guess its ok to be angry, but it’s not ok to let it take a hold of you and negatively change you
When people make bad choices, your reaction to that choice reveals a lot about you, its best said by Mathew West :
Even when the jury and the judge
Say you gotta right to hold a grudge
It’s the whisper in your ear saying ‘Set It Free’
Here’s to Life